Meet Our Honorees for the July 16th YMO Fundraising Event - RODERICK CRAIN

When I was first diagnosed with kidney failure, it shook me to my core. I felt confused, scared, and overwhelmed by the question—why me? Everything I thought I knew about my life suddenly felt uncertain. Once the initial shock settled, my thoughts turned to the practical: How will I continue working? Will I be able to live my life as I always have?

The reality is, I haven’t been able to work since my diagnosis. That’s been one of the hardest parts—not just because of the financial strain, but because work gave me a sense of purpose and routine. Losing that has taken an emotional toll, and the financial impact is something my family and I are still trying to navigate. I’ve had to lean on others more than I ever expected, and I’ve come to realize that sometimes, it’s okay to ask for help.

When I shared the news with my family, there was a wave of sadness. But I assured them—my faith in God would carry me through, and it truly has.

This journey has especially impacted on my wife and youngest daughter. My wife has been my rock, even while juggling her own challenges. Between my health and her mother’s health issues, she has more than her fair share of tough days. Yet, she continues to be present for both of us, and for that, I’m deeply thankful.

My youngest daughter is truly Daddy’s girl. Though she lives out of state, we talk every day. I try not to burden her too much with the details of my journey—I want to protect her from worry. Still, she knows this is going to be a long road, and her love and understanding mean the world to me.

My oldest daughter worries, but as a single mom, her hands are full. We may not talk as often as we’d like, but I know she cares deeply. My middle daughter is having a hard time processing it all. We've always been close, and I think a part of her is afraid—afraid of losing me. That fear is real, and I understand it.

Despite all the challenges—emotionally, physically, and financially—I’m blessed with a family that surrounds me with love and strength. This journey isn’t easy, and there are many unknowns ahead, but with their support, and with my faith, I know I can face whatever comes next.